Unsure about whether Be Can Do Life Coaching is a good match for you.
Are you a natural carer and always tend to put others needs before your own? Do you feel a need or desire to help others and struggle to make or find time for yourself?
Or have circumstances led you to take on a caring role? Maybe you have found yourself taking care of others due to disability, addiction or ill health.
My name is Jacky and I am a life transformation coach based in the UK. I was drawn to life coaching as a natural carer. This caring role has been a part of my life forever. From caring for my younger siblings through childhood to co-dependent dysfunctional relationships as an adult. And now as a carer for my disabled son.
I appreciate how, as a carer, life can feel out of our control and become closed in. I know what it means to be live with other’s addictions. The manipulations and heartache this brings. The feeling of helplessness, the slow chipping away of self-worth and final loss of a sense of self. And often this is covered with a veneer that looks fine to others on the outside. The carer that becomes a coper.
Apart from caring for others, I have spent many years managing other personal issues. I struggled with anxiety and put unrealistic expectations on myself. I undervalued myself, neglected my self-care and paid the price. This finally caught up with me. I broke under the pressure.
But I worked through and changed my life. Using life coaching myself, 12 step programmes, self-development and CBT I overcame my personal struggle to find healing and happiness. I worked with coaches to face my personal excuses for inaction and had to rebuild my self-confidence too.
Many of my circumstances are the same as before but now I am a lot more at peace.
I know what it means to make tough personal choices. To face and overcome what may seem like insurmountable hurdles.
All my experiences have taught me a lot about getting the balance right. About recognising the right level of boundary setting and self-care. Knowing when to let go and when to be present with a helping hand. I have learned to be at peace with my choices and overcome my worries about what is beyond my control.
And now I’m here to share that with you as your transformational life coach.
Why Choose Be Can Do Life Coaching?
As a trained coach with years of life experience caring for others, I understand your situation more than others do.
Although you love those you care for you feel frustrated or unhappy. And this leads to guilt. You may feel ashamed of how you let your life get to this. You could feel undervalued or unappreciated. Your life may feel out of your control. On a personal level, your self-worth seems to be shrinking or you struggle with lowering confidence.
And other people don’t understand. They try to sympathise or offer simple solutions. But you need to do what is right for you.
Be Can Do Life Coaching is all about helping you give yourself permission to change your life for the better. Your situation might not need to change, just your approach.
However, coaching isn’t counselling, so don’t expect to spend time dwelling on the past. Expect to work at moving forward in your life. Finding out what is right for you and taking steps to make that change you need.
Be Can Do Life Coaching will help you find a way to achieving or regaining a healthy l. If you are committed to giving yourself permission and time to change your life then Be Can Do Life Coaching can help you.
Life Coaching – The Be Can Do Approach
Be Can Do’s philosophy is about shifting your mindset from being obstacle focussed to a ‘can do’ attitude. It is about defining life goals that work for you.
My aim is to help you look at your life from a new viewpoint. To remove the blocks in the way to your happiness. To find that inner confidence and optimism and to lighten yourself from internal baggage that weighs you down.
You are on your personal journey. Coaching is about taking responsibility for your path through life and your wellbeing. You focus on the destination and take the steps you need. I will be your guide. Supporting you on your way.
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Do you need time to work out what is the right thing to do?
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